1. Read beauty magazines and online articles and all those “curvy girl” style tips
And then promptly realise that you’ve been wearing everything wrong and your wardrobe is filled with all the wrong things.
2. Go through said wardrobe and attempt to put something together that all them fashion editors agree with
Once you’ve found an outfit suitable to be worn in public, feel proud and look forward to strutting your stuff.
3. Wear compiled outfit and break the f*** down
Once you’re done with that, think about what you’re doing with your life. You are not fat, you have fat, and who the hell are you trying to please by trying to hide it?
4. Start to feel good and you will also start to look good
Denial isn’t just a river in Africa. Don’t do things that make you unhappy. Don’t pretend you’re happy when you’re not. Don’t pretend that your life is over when it’s not. Don’t try convincing anyone that you’re going to change your life when you’re not convinced yourself, you’re only holding yourself back.